Posted date: 2016-05-30 16:49:19
A little while ago my wife showed me a TedX video by thought leader Simon Sinek about how great leaders inspire action. In it he identifies the one thing that separates successful people from unsuccessful people. The answer has nothing to do with the amount of resources a person or company has. It also has nothing to do with the level of support or how connected you are.
According to his research, the one thing that separates successful people (and companies) from unsuccessful people (and companies) is their why. That’s right. Why are they doing what they’re doing? Now let me stop you before you go where I know you’re going to go. And that’s money. You see, if you ask why a company is doing something, sure we’ll say to make more profit, but that’s not what Simon means. He’s talking about the real reason you’re doing what you’re doing. So for example, Apple’s why is to challenge the status quo. They believe in thinking differently. This is the crux of any marketing message they put out.
When you start by highlighting the why you’re going to inspire much more than simply highlighting what you’re doing. Well, after watching this video, I start asking myself why my website (www.tryary.com) is a Law of Attraction Social Network. And the answer immediately and instinctively came to me. Now I’ve always known this answer subconsciously, but I never brought it to the awareness of my mind, until that point. And the funny thing is, the why is also the main reason why Law of Attraction isn’t working for you.
Now, this is a common question that a lot of people ask. Why isn’t it working for me? What am I doing wrong? And if you do a Google search you’ll find many reasons why, according to experts, bloggers, coaches and anyone else who has a strong knowledge of this all powerful law. A lot of their answers are technical in nature. You’re attached to the results. You’re focusing more on what you don’t want than what you do want. You’re not attaching feeling to your desire. I can go on. And while all of these reasons are technically true, they aren’t THE reason why it’s not working for you. There is one and only one reason Law of Attraction isn’t working for you and that is immersion.
Let me explain. While, on the surface, the concept of Like Attracts Like seems simple, there are a lot of nuances to the Law of Attraction. You need to understand those nuances and any details that go along with it. But that’s just the first step. While we can all understand the very fundamental premise that we have created everything we’ve ever experienced in our lives, and therefore need to take responsibility for it, how many people actually live that premise? The same goes for all aspects of this Law. So the next step is to incorporate these principles in your life. You literally need to make it a priority and re-program your mind to think and feel a certain way.
And then comes the concept of resistance. Which in layman’s terms simply means getting in your own way. We’re our biggest obstacle. So, for example, let’s say you decide to practice Law of Attraction and you’re visualizing, but you’re not a patient person, so you start panicking when you don’t see almost instantaneous results. You question whether this law works, you stop visualizing, etc. This is what’s meant by resistance. Not believing in the process and more importantly not believing that you’re taking the right steps to achieve your desire.
My point is we can get caught up anywhere along the path to making the Law of Attraction work for you. But here’s the secret, these challenges are normal. Your biggest problem is not any of that. You’re biggest problem is that you don’t fully immerse yourself into the study and practise of law of attraction. It’s like a language. If you wanted to become fluent in Spanish, you wouldn’t dabble in it here and there. We all know that will get us nowhere. You have to jump in with both feet and fully immerse yourself in the study and practise of the language. In many cases the best thing you can do is to live in a country where Spanish is the dominant language.
Yet most of us dabble in Law of Attraction in fits and starts. We like an inspirational photo on Facebook, then go along our merry way. We read a chapter of Ask and It Is Given and then busy ourselves with something else. While it’s better to do something than nothing, you’re not giving yourself a full opportunity to succeed. You need to take the necessary time to understand LOA. The details, the nuances, how the world really works, how the process works, the science of it (even in a limited scale).
And then you need to start practising it. At first, this will require your full awareness. Catching your negative thoughts and shifting your focus in a different direction. Deliberately practising gratitude and more importantly learning to be happy for no reason at all. Truly practising the art of accepting full responsibility for everything in your life. Deliberately learning to believe in yourself. Enjoying your journey rather than putting too much weight on the end goal. Learning to minimize your resistance. And guess what, this is hard work. I’m not going to sugar-coat it. It’s one of the most difficult things you’re ever going to do. And you will gain momentum and you will fall backwards. You will manifest amazing things and you will have bad days.
But boy are the results worth it. I mean we’re talking about finding the treasure chest to all of your dreams. This will make the difference between living an ordinary life and an extraordinary life. This is the same stuff that all the people who changed the world figured out. So yes it’s totally worth it. But you need to immerse yourself into it as much as you can. You need to incorporate the practise of it in every aspect of your life.
And that’s my WHY. Tryary is the platform where you can begin to immerse yourself into the Law of Attraction World. Here you can connect with other like-minded people who will help you along your journey. Here you can read the latest ground-breaking tips from the likes of Bob Proctor, Jack Canfield and many more (in the blog section). Here you can watch incredible videos with tips, inspiration and songs. Here you can have discussions on our forum about any topic you can think of. Here you can find all the experts (coaches, bloggers and authors). Here you can ask questions and join events and take courses. I know this is turning into a plug for my site, but that’s not my point. The reason why I am providing this amazing site to you is to give you and everyone else the platform in which to immerse yourself in the most powerful law of the universe. The reason you’re here is because you believe in this law. And the only way to make it work for you is to give it your all. To put 100% of yourself into it. And once you do and once you’re on the road to practising it daily in your life, then you’ll start seeing the rewards.
So let me ask you two questions.
Make the decision now and start on your journey to fulfilling your dreams.